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Legalism, and Why I Eventually Ate Witchcraft Granola

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If you are anything like me you grew up with a Christianity that involved a strict set of rules.  The Bible, starring as the rule book,  never seemed at the time to be much more than a list of legalities one had to follow to be apart of the Christian club. One area that I found particularly terrifying was the possibility of ending up in hell. It seemed like there were so many ways to land down there. Without daily diligence it could almost happen by surprise.

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My Own Religious Frailty, and Common Ground with Atheists and Agnostics

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Photo credit: 2005 Maura Johnston/flickr.

If someone asked me to describe my faith, like giving a State of the Union for the soul, I’d say “don’t call it a State of the Union for the soul because that sounds like you’re elevating the government to a god-like position,” and when the person realized that I was making a dumb joke on purpose, I’d finally answer. Sorry, I’m a little wary to get into this post when it’s all about my own religious doubts. But I’m going to share them because I have a feeling that many of these doubts are universal.

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Religious Doubt is Imminent, But It Can Be Navigated

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It begins at a young age. We are trained to hide our doubts. As we grow, this is reinforced by the adoption of labels- Christian, agnostic, atheist, for example. Comfort can be found on both sides of the religious fence. We’re told to keep things simple for ourselves. We’re told to not peek through the hole in the fence at our neighbor’s party, lest we catch a glimpse of his opposing views and be overcome like the incredible melting Nazis in Raiders of the Lost Ark. But doubts persist. Whether as the result of cruelty that crashes into life changing everything in unwelcome ways, questions and desires unanswered, the wear and tear of painful relationships, or consequences from personal mistakes, we doubt ourselves, we doubt God, or spend years trying to figure out who is to blame; questions that float on the rising tide of resentment. While religious doubt varies by the individual, it is a transformative and often grueling process that cannot be solved with a formula, but all is not lost. There is a way through it; a path that can even be nourishing.

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[TELEGRAM] Notes from a Blizzard

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“Courage is fear that has said its prayers.” -Dorothy Bernard

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Why, as a Christian, I’m Not Joining the Fight Against Gay Marriage

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We have a hot one in the news right now.  Washington State has legalized same sex marriage and there is no doubt that Christians are often fired up about this issue. We are rallying, we are petitioning; flat out, we are against this. “This should not happen.  This is an abomination.  God would not approve.  They are sinning.  It says right in the Bible that what they are doing is wrong.  Have they not read Leviticus?  What about Romans?  It is our job to FIX them, not give them the right to marry.  It is the end times and they are surely all going to hell.”

Except, I don’t believe that, and I am a Christian. In fact, I support gay marriage.

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A Pastor’s Rebuttal on Church Discipline: Responding to the Mars Hill Controversy

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Note from Ian Ebright: We typically do not feature guest posts on this site, but due to the recent Mars Hill Church discipline scandal (my thoughts on the matter and the problem of insulated churches here) and legitimate concern, curiosity, and questions that are being raised about the idea of church discipline, I reached out in the hope of getting credible feedback. Fortunately, a prominent pastor responded. His post is below, and has been kept anonymous by request.

I’ll be teaching a group of students today out of I Corinthians 5, which is a sort of ‘classic text’ regarding church discipline.  The subject has been in the news a fair bit lately, and even if it hasn’t, it’s an important subject in it’s own right. Over the past years, there’s been shock over the repeated passivity of church authority when priests have been charged with molestation, pedophilia, and other abusive activities.  Protecting predators is viewed, rightly, with anger – especially when predators are in positions of authority.  If a church knows that one of its own leaders is involved in activities that utterly misrepresent Christ, the church is called to act, according to both Matthew 18 and I Corinthians 5.

These two passages, though, apply to more than just leaders.  They apply to everyone in the church, because everyone who has declared their commitment to a particularly local expression of church life is committing to that church’s value structure, a structure that hopefully represents, in some measure, the heart of Christ.  We’re called to hold each other accountable because, if we’re going to wear the t-shirt that says we belong to Jesus, we need to help each other look like Jesus.

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Mars Hill Seattle, and the Problem of Insulated Churches

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You may have heard the recent story of a Mars Hill member named Andrew and the experience he had with church leadership following his voluntary confession of sexual sin, which focused around the fact that he had cheated on his fiance. ”I take responsibility for my actions. I messed up,” he said. Andrew encountered name-calling from various leaders, not to mention several meetings and text messages. Despite his remorse and participation including tearful confessionals, things were just getting started. Next came a discipline contract printed on church letterhead outlining numerous steps to full reconciliation, pressure and intimidation when he announced he would not sign and would instead be leaving the church, and most remarkably- a document naming Andrew and his sin and detailing how members were to handle him socially (when to include and exclude him, and even how to answer), published on the Mars Hill community forum without Andrew’s consent. For details, here is the full expose on Matthew Paul Turner’s site: Part 1 and 2.

Mars Hill issued a recent response to this fiasco, which I will also focus on in this post.

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I Want to Know Your Story, Just Not Like This

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As Christians we started with the fish.  Something simple.  Something intended to let people know that we were, indeed, Christians.  No words were necessary, it was as simple as carrying a Bible around.  We just wanted people to know.

Then it grew.  The popularity of catchy bumper stickers became extreme.

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[TELEGRAM] Remembering Jesus of Nazareth Despite One’s Self

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“I’ll learn, to sing: Evermore, rejoice.” -Third Eye Blind

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Holidays with the Narcissists, and What to Do About It

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As the holiday season arrives each year, some of us find it to be a time that almost triggers the worst in those people around us who are a taxing, burdensome presence rather than an uplifting presence. As the recipients of this draining energy, we find ourselves bewildered and frustrated, often in ways that are difficult to articulate. But maybe this year can be different.

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